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Guys , I am so lucky to be back in action in DA and if I was still sick , I think I will be screwed from top to bottom. Normally I do not share private issues from people to you guys as every notes that comes in asking for help is confidential . But this note , takes things to a whole new level 

Imagine someone sending you a note saying that they are in extreme distress and they really feel like setting their room on fire and he will just die in this accident and to hell with the world and he even prepared kerosene from his dad's garage . I wont go into full details of why he wana do it but all I can say its due to relationship issue .  I mean guys , if you are like 14 years old , you are still way too young to be in a serious relationship am I not right ? And also , by committing suicide when your relationship don't work out , that is something that I cannot digest just yet.  Just so everyone knows , committing suicide is ILLEGAL . I still cant believe people are telling me about how legal it is because their life belongs to them and no one has a say over it .  


I mean , I am glad he drops me a note as we chat before about arts a few weeks ago and kinda know each other but in a blink of an eye , he wants to commit suicide over a girl  ?  My advise was really simple , calm down , think about your future which has so much more in stall for you . By committing suicide , dont you think that this is something that will not solve your problem and do you think its worth it over a relationship that lasted for like 5 days ? Even if it was 5 years , I wont recommend you doing that as you will be remembered as the boy who died over a 5 day ( I am serious , its just freaking 5 days !) relationship . I am sorry but this is how its going to be , imagine your face and your death story published in the newspaper , forever shamming you ...  The 14 year old boy who set fire to his house and died in the fire over a 5 day relationship which didnt work out .  Do you want the WORLD to remember that about you or should you consider other options ? 

After like a 15 to 20 min conversation through notes , he just apologised and call it a day ... Phewwwwwwwwwwwwwww ...  I am so glad I came home on time !   People , please .. sucide isnt the answer , its just a means of escape but the problem WILL STILL BE THERE because you arent alive to solve it .  God gave you a life , something I call a journey , make full use of it , be wise !



Rgds
Jeremy 
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SpiralDiColori Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
well ur wise as ever
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kittykat532 Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2014  Hobbyist Artist

Oh my god! I sort of get feeling like you want to kill yourself over a relationship, because you loved the person, but that doesn't mean you should! I mean, you've got the rest of your life ahead of you, and you're only 14! I say you just need to try to forget about her/him, cause if she/he wasn't wise enough to see what good of a guy/girl you are that means they missed out!

Also, are you serious about the suicide thing, cause I've never heard of that?

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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2014   Traditional Artist
It is serious ! 
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kittykat532 Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Huh, I don't get why tons of people do that though. Are you talking about God, or a government law? Cause I know about the God suicide thing. But either way, yes suicide IS serious, and it shouldn't be taken lightly and he shouldn't have thought about doing it. And if you need any help with him, you can ask me!
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thefierydeath Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Oh my gosh that's insane. I mean come on; I'm 14 and I don't get that worked up over relationships. My theory on how my romance should be is I don't need to have a boyfriend to survive. I'm going to love my life and if someone who is kind and honest and loyal decides they want to join me and we love each other then by all means! But sometimes things just have to be let go. Wow. Just. Wow. 
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Deathday94991313 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Student General Artist
Wow...I completely agree with what you just said. I mean, I'm 13, and knowing someone would do that...it sometimes makes me think what has happened to the world. Before girls and boys were all 'eww that's gross' and now...I feel that people so desperately want to be in a relationship. For me, I'd want to live my life out before a special someone comes along and then we'd settle down. -shrugs- But that's just how I want to live my life, in all honesty. I pity the guy though, he should understand that most relationships at this age wouldn't work out...there's just so much to think over.
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Miss-Ag Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I mean NO disrespect and im not trying to be ride i swear but some of your last few numbers are incorrect. 91st, 92nd, 93rd. also i completely agree. young ones take relationships beyond what they should. sadly those hormones make them feel constantly on edge! as though the whole world will fall with the slightest push. im happy you helped. some people just need a minute to breathe step back and look at their situation. i do also agree its up to everyone how they deal with their life, as someone who deals with self-mutilation and bi-polar disorder i am VERY thankful to be here today and happy for those people that pulled me away from the edge but i also like the respect that it is MY life and my body. Thank you for being a caring person and helping others.
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GMan1255 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Writer
Wow, that's a lot to take in. It's irrational, it always is (despite how much I am able to do that). Suicide is almost always on impulse. It's been proven. How a 14 year old got into a relationship when I'm 16 and can't is beyond me. I'm glad you were there for him. It's such a wrong way to die too. 
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mbkwg2000 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
It kinda pisses me off when kids say that they're in a committed relationship at such a young age! I'm 13, and even though I of course look at guys, I of course know that I'm nowhere near mature enough to get a real boyfriend, so I'm waiting until I'm 15 or 16 to do so.
I do feel bad that the poor boy wanted to kill himself though, and I pray that he works it all out.

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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
To be honest , i know of lovebirds at the age of as young as 11 years old and they do crazy things together ... What is the world becoming
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mbkwg2000 Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
A heel-hole where kids think they can be the adults and never respect their parents or teachers... or cops...
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furchild1204 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
...wow. Just wow.
It's such a relief that he was at least willing to talk to someone about the problem, but it boggles my mind that he would even think of doing that over a relationship... yeah, it hurts when they end, but suicide is not the answer. You, sir, are a great person to help him out.
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mbkwg2000 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
It is my belief that suicide is SELFISH.
You're hurting the people who know and love you if you kill yourself!
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furchild1204 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Well, yes. I agree with you there.
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Bella-Anima Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Brilliant! It's so nice to hear a good result from something like this! :D You said it perfectly, suicide is never the answer, though most teenagers struggle with it at some point in their life.
I struggled with it briefly during a dark period of my teenage years. I didn't want to do it, but something kept telling me to do it, so I called out to God to send me help before I did do it. My mother woke up one night and said God told her I was in trouble, and she needed to go to me. She found me crying in my room because I was fighting the urge to do it. She helped me and I learned that God does care about me, He listened. He heard me, He'll hear everyone else too.
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mbkwg2000 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm very glad that you found God!
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Bella-Anima Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thank you, so am I! :)
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TheLivingGlitch Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014
*sniff* That was beautiful, man.
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kokopuff-kun Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
You're a great man, Sir. You just practically saved a life! ^<^ :iconclapplz:

Even though suicide is a permament solution, it's also a cowardly solution, you're just running away from the problem. You're not solving the problem, all you're doing is making it worse, and your family, and friends grieve, that's all you're doing if you commit suicide! 

God gave you a life, and we're all stories in the end, eh? So why not make it a good story? 
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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
Its really all up to us whether we want our lifes to be a good or a bad one .... By ending your life , everyone ard you will be affected one way or another , thank you for pointing this out pepper 
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kokopuff-kun Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
You're welcome!~ And why would anyone want a bad life? Unless they're doing it for attention, I could see why.
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bittersweet-ink Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
I agree with this, although the reason for committing suicide doesn't matter. if someone is feeling that desperate then it's true, everyone is different.
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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
i TOTALLY agree with you falcon , everyone is different and everyone has different ways of handling problems :)  BUT again , sucide isnt the only option ! 
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HikariAkane Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Nowadays this happens to often :/  People don't understand that their lifes don't depend on one person.  They forget to value themselves and don't realize how amazing they are.  :P
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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
OMG hikari , what you just said is REALLY TRUE ! 
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HikariAkane Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
O.o Is it?
Well...I have some friends that went through this situations.
Some years ago I experienced it too so...I try to help my friends to realize how amazing they are :)
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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
So long there are people like you ard to put the BALANCE to them , god bless you !
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HikariAkane Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Awee :3
Thankss! You're also a great person ^^ God Bless you too Meow :3 
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Vaalkaaren Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem and in reality, it's very selfish. And while sometimes it may seem like the right option, it never is. God did give us the great gift of life we shouldn't squander such a thing because of irrationality. 
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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
you have just made a very wonderful statement here , I thank you for stepping up  
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Vaalkaaren Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You're welcome =) I just really don't want to be the person to stand by watching and then later in life, regretting what I didn't do. 
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Bella-Anima Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
well put!
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Vaalkaaren Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Haha thanks! I've never had anyone I know come close to committing suicide but I hope that if I do, I'll be able to help them~
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Bella-Anima Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You know, I think this is a more common problem than people think. I know in my country, it's one of the highest death causes, if not the highest. It's important to help others suffering from it, and I'm glad that you are trying to help! :D
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Vaalkaaren Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yeah, it really is. I guess I just want to be prepared if anything like that does happen. And thank you for the watch and llama! It's much appreciated! :hug:
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Bella-Anima Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
no problem! Thank you for the watch! :D
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Vaalkaaren Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Haha You're welcome!
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x-WhisperMyName-x Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Student General Artist
Nice you were able to help someone, very nice~ It helped me a little, too. ^^ Thank you for sharing this.
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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
Do you want someone to talk to ?  and thank you so much for leaving a positive comment here :)  I hope you can learn something from this too ! 
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x-WhisperMyName-x Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Student General Artist
I, personally, feel like I am doing a bit better lately~ I've managed to kept the negative feelings under control, but if I need some one to talk to, I'll let you know. And you are very welcome~!
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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
If you wana talk to someone , let me know .. I will be most delighted to hear you out 
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x-WhisperMyName-x Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Student General Artist
Thank you~
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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
you are very much welcome  :) 
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x-WhisperMyName-x Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Student General Artist
^^
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AnOptimisticSnarker Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
This is very inspirational! I'm glad you were able to stop him from committing suicide. And you're right, suicide is never the answer. It only creates more problems and sadness really. Preach bro, preach!
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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
I aint a pastor , I cant preach :P  And even if I was a pastor , I doubt anyone would give a damn so might as well share and help using real life experiences so people will learn from it and hopefully , no one will try that again ! 
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AnOptimisticSnarker Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Well, I guess I should have seen this coming. Still I'm pretty sure someone who really listen and pay attention and get something from you. And yeah, sharing experience to keeping people from making grave mistakes is very noble of you. :)
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JeremyArts Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014   Traditional Artist
Thanks alot bro :) 
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AnOptimisticSnarker Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
You're welcome. :D
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ViperPeggy Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
Preach it, brotha!
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