375th Day on DA (2 Types of People)

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Well guys , just to update you a little about Ella , she has not made her decision yet and tomorrow is the deadline and so far she has not lean to either direction yet so I hope she sort it out asap as I am quite worried about it if you ask me . Now there has been a topic that I think I have to really bring up as I think , this is a very real issue that we are facing . 

Linda had a good talk with us for the past couple of days after the meet up with my landlord and she told me that there are 2 types of people in the world . I was kinda scratching my head when she talked about this topic , was she being random ? I do not know and so I am all ears and I hope I can have your attention too on this . 

What does she mean by 2 kinds of people , there is one the Do-ers  and there is the other , the Talkers . Sounds familiar ? I believe you guys have encounter BOTH kinds of people wherever you are in and I think , this is something that we all should be clear about what we are facing . Let me start with the Do-ers , people who uses action to do the talking and you know what ? They are generally people who takes the first initiative before anyone else as they are genuinely giving out a helping hand in all sorts of situation . This kind of people are pretty rare to come by , just look at society now and what kind of state are we actually in ?  Be it in school , at home , with your friends or as in general public , when something happens and the first thing people would do is it to take out their phones and start recording . What happens after that ? Oh yes , plastering it all over social media and using the word (viral) ..  Helping hands , where are they when you need them ? If someone is willing to help you out when you are in a pinch , please be thankful to them .

Now for the talkers that we are all so familiar with , people who just talk till no tomorrow about anything and does not come up with any solution . To be honest , most of the time they are just making the situation worst with their pile of bullshit (Sorry , I really have to use that word) . I have friends both in real life and DA , facing depression due to these talkers telling them things that is not true at all .  Mind you guys , talkers come in all shapes and form but one thing they have in common , they given meaningless advises that does not help one bit . Same thing that I see here in DA , when an artist uploads something online , they usual hate will pour in and then trying to be the nice guy and giving them advises like : i think your colouring skills really sucks , your body anatomy is totally off and the classic , your art is so ugly . When you try to ask them nicely what is wrong with your art , they will be telling you things like : Not for me to know but for you to find out , there is no cure to your art , please quit DA as your art is wasting bandwidth . 

Not to be totally against talkers but some of them DO bring out valid points but they way the phrase it is totally invalid at all . Why not just spend sometime being nice and let them know what is really wrong with their art pieces and you are helping them indirectly and guess what , it may be positive help in the long run but NO , people choose to do it the other way round . This is the internet and I can talk about anything that I want , anything and I could be donald trump behind the keyboards . 

Imagine in real life situations either in school or work , there is always this nice guy that tries to help out everyone and there is this one loud mouth that belittles everyone using his wealth of "knowledge" slamming you down "intellectually" . Guys , its not too hard to either one of them but from the way I see it , there is a 3rd kind of people , the one that is always in the neutral zone , not trying to do anything , never stood up to help and trying to avoid EVERYTHING in their way so as to not offend anyone and get into everyone's good book . There are such people and there are loads of this kind roaming in my area , people that minds their own business and not doing a thing when someone is in a serious pinch .  Well , thats the honest truth isnt it ? 

If you are wondering why Linda mentioned the 2 types of people , the Do-ers and the talkers , she is actually referring to Ella who will be making that final decision . We are torn between taking the compensations and let bygones be bygones or pursue the case and let peterson face the real music this time round . You see , indirectly we can help the landlord but directly letting peterson scot free or we can help peterson by getting him into serious trouble with the authorities and sending our landlord into an emotional break down . Things do not have to be so hard or complicated , if you want whats best for everyone , just DO IT and pursue the case and end of story  OR you can be just someone that TALKS about how much you want peterson to be punished or even taser him but secretly takes the compensation and getting everyone else into greater trouble in future . Linda did advise Ella to pursue with the case and so did I and I am not sure why is she still not making her decision yet ? 


 Just a side note , to  those people who are constantly sending me notes about why my journals are so negative lately and they find it very disturbing at times , I am terribly sorry to you if you think that my negativity has been giving you problems . I do not wish for an unlucky streak and I do not have command and control of it at all . Let me make this clear , if anyone would just try to be in my shoes for 10 mins and go through what I have been through the past few weeks or so . Tell me that you will be okay , tell me that you do not need a helping hand and tell me that you will not have an aura of negativity and if you truly can do it , teach me your secrets . Most of you guys have a room over your head , a place you call home and you have your parents around whenever you needed them while I am on the other hand , trying my best to get an apartment that will never be my forever home and just to add more salt to my own wounds , I left home without getting the blessings from my parents and we have not been in contact for many many years . There are times  I tried to smile and pretend to be happy at work , one of my co-workers actually came up to me and hug me seeing how broken I am in the inside . My smile actually made someone else cry .. 


This is the times when I am having serious issues in life and those who are really caring and truly wants me to get better will step up and sends me
motivation notes that really boost my morale and confidence when I am really low. Some of you guys even shared your life story with me which indirectly gives me a new perspective about life . Thank you so much guys as and you know , I cannot thank you people enough  , you guys are the true Do-ers that are shiny examples that we need in life and not the ones that just talks and type . Also for those people who are always commenting on my journals and giving me valuable advises and also those people who have been introducing me new deviants to watch and feature , thank you so much too ! 


Here are my features for today 

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   “We’re going to have fun with you.” a voice sneered.
   She lolled her head back, blinking away blood that dripped into her eyes, and her head pounded way too hard for her to speak. Slowly, she lost consciousness.
   Pain was an understatement until someone went through what Blaze went through. She was tortured under the sun; wounds littered her from head to toe, and it hurt to breathe. Being poked and jabbed with so many things was not amusing whatsoever, and it didn’t tickle. Her ribs throbbed with her head, blood was dripping down her body, and black spots covered her gaze. They wouldn’t kill her. No, they would b

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    This was meant to happen.
    A red seeped forward, the snow receding at its contact, as if disgusted by the turn of events.
    This was meant to happen.
    Glass across pavement, strewn along the ice that only embraced the asphalt the night before.
    This was meant to happen.
    Breaths: quick, long, shuttering, snapping, tumbling into nothing, disappearing with the inhale of the snow; strangled, scattered, mirroring the glass, mirroring the pale oblivion past the outstretched rubber arms of the bumper.
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Glenmore, Near the Great Oak

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"Hey! What're you doing here?" A dark colt had stomped up to him. "This space is restricted to Royals only!" He puffed his chest out. Cesare rolled his eyes, the colt annoyed him every time they met, it didn't help Yuki wanted him to get along with everyone. "Get out of here you filthy creature!" He demanded. "What! Dirt where?!" Cesare squawked shrilly, faking horror as he stared at his coat, "I don't see any dirt?" The colt stared at him, sl
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omg i dont know why im featured but thank you~~
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