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Many parents around the world have different way of bringing up their children's . Some do it with love , some do it with an iron fist , some simply doesn't care at all . Among the many people who come to me for help , let's just say that many and I mean many have issues at home due to their parents .
yes our parents are the one that created us and somehow or rather , we became their "property" . How nice will it be if your parents are the impartial type , no biases between siblings and rewards you when you done something well in school . Best of all , shower you with love , cutting you that bit of slack and have close one to one talk with you regarding personal stuffs in your life . Perfect isn't it ....
How about parents who abuse you ? Nothing rare or uncommon here if you ask me , I have heard of parents beating up their child , shaming them in public , or even ground them for a super long period of time . But mind you. , most cases are not because that the child is under performing in school but its the parents who demands perfection and also the hardcore controlling type . Imagine living in that kind if environment , any child will grow up and be slightly screwed in the head one day. (Sexual abused child grows up to be a pedophile etc) ..
i will just share with you my personal story which I rarely or maybe don't share at all . Maybe you wil know slightly more about me and what kind of upbringing I have undergone . My dad is a workaholic and has a very bad temper , I have beaten up by him so much that I lost count . Its things like the floor is not clean and why am I getting 85/100 for my science papers or over many stupid things , he used his belt , rubber hose from the water tap and cane.. I used to remember the swells and brusies I get ... Crying in my sleep , hugging my only toy then .well you know , when my siblings does something wrong , we all get beaten up together , guess this is what they call , sink together in the same ship . And just so you know ,my family never celebrate any birthdays at all , nothing ..
My mum is someone that doesn't take bullshit and crap from anyone , not even my dad . Her zero tolerance level for anything on earth made her the true tiger in the home . I can't recall what incident that made her furious and and my mum hit my head with a broomstick and instantly , busted me wide open. I recalled how blood splattered out and my mum crying after that . I remember telling her , Why cry ? you always wanted me to die anyway .. Went to the hospital for stitches after that ...
Lets just say that my school life isn't that's good either , I didn't talk much in school , didn't have much friends . Always a good target for group bullies ... Somehow or rather I survived all that abused ... And hey , I don't feel depressed at all .. I moved on from there
I do know of some people who have abusive parents at home , I know you can't really do much as a child . But if its getting overboard , call your relatives for help or even some family helpline which is normally toll free . Not everyone can stand that abuse and be fine , not everyone has a strong will power to overcome it . Bottom line is , if you get abused by anyone , get help before its too late ..
Ps. This could be one of the reason why I am so deeply attached to art ...
564th Day on DA (New art updates!)
Hello guys how do you do ? Its been a long time since I really had time to sit down and post journals daily as I am battling with my job , health & new environment. Nevertheless the artist in me is still alive & I have have not stop trying to explore new stuffs . I am currently making these new boba milk tea shaker charms (Real milky liquid with ice and pearls) . Check it out & let me know what do you guys think :) Please stay safe , healthy & remember to wear your masks when you are outdoors . Sanitize your hands whenever possible . Fingers crossed these pandemic will be over soon !
563TH Day on DA (HAPPY NEW YEAR)
Happy new years my friends , I know its been a very very long time since my last post & I hope everyone is doing well during these tough times . Lots & lots have happened & I don't really know where to start . It took me quite a while to even remember my password on DA & finally after a gazillion tries I finally got the right one , thank the lord for that DA has changed so much till I had a rough time looking for where & how do I even start to post a journal , it feels so alien to me right now but I guess I will have to restart life again here on DA. For now I will just say that I have already long moved to another country & covid has just put a halt to all of my plans & almost my life . It was a bold move on my part to leave everything behind and restart life somewhere else & I did just that . Currently I am working from home & the crazy thing is that I have started on art for a couple of months now & its kind of a way to sustain myself as my day job isn't really paying the bills
562th Day on DA (Looking for co-founders/admin)
Hi there guys , its been really a while and I really need your help ! My group existing-to-living (https://www.deviantart.com/existing-to-living) which has around 8k members are looking for co-founders to kick start our group back into the zone again . The whole idea of this group is to promote unseen artists , I am looking for quite a number of people to manage the group so please let me know if you are interested :) Here are more details to this role
1) Will need an active deviant (online as least once in every 2 days or so)
2) Sort out deviations as many submitter will always post in the wrong folders (worst cases are posting obscene stuffs)
3) Posting journal entries to keep the
561th Day on DA (Goldie and the thief)
Hey guys , first of all apologies for the lack for updates as life is really taking a toll on me so let me first kick start this journal by letting you guys know that the golden retriever is currently staying with me as I am fostering it at the moment but for me there was another volunteer that did so but things didnt turn out too well . The first foster home has 2 dogs ,1 cat & 2 rabbits & the owner is actually a retiree who really can dedicate her time with all these animals 24/7 . The problem is that her animals are really too active and the golden retriever is really stressed out & probably really unhappy in there as the anima
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The problems is that there are spoiled idiots around who think that just because a person is a parent, so that person can do whatever they want, and that the childrens have no right to defend themselves or complain... such a stupid way of thinking.